You give everything physically, emotionally, socially, financially, you give ‘til you have nothing else to give and you call it dating. Now here’s where everything gets more confusing.Don’t practice divorce by playing house with each other.Keep your fear factor of blabbed info low and up your dateability by remaining a woman that is mysterious.The only way to come out of the relationship feeling proud and strong is to not give in.Let’s get real and break it down so we can see things clearly. All that pain is the result of you pouring too much of yourself into a relationship that was not going to last in the first place. Listen don’t go blamin’ God for what you’ve done.Guy need to learn how to be more truthful when they talk.No matter how much you talk about the future, guys do not believe you will be together forever-he’s not thinking about marriage.Your spiritual beliefs have an impact on your dating life.51% of marriages end in divorce before the age of 24.(Not just in a physical sense, wherever I am at in whatever I’m doing.) Below these are notes from the book that stood out. I want and desire to stay pure for the woman I will one day marry. I think God might have used this book to convince me to buy a purity ring and wear it as a symbol. As well you really need to be in God’s Word and in prayer when wanting to date or like someone. Dating isn’t a hobby and shouldn’t be treated like that! With dating someone, comes responsibility and serious sacrifice. I learned that dating comes with some serious responsibility and isn’t something that you can just throw around in your mind.

They both basically took the guys and girls and showed them some things that need work on. They didn’t hold back at all (Which I’m a fan of because I like when authors/speakers say the things people don’t say or are either thinking.) I also loved how the two authors focused on some serious points from both ends of the genders.

I also appreciated that both authors were very straight forward about things. It definitely made references to God but he didn’t use too many scriptures. I loved that the authors didn’t over spiritualize things and made it common sense and/or just in a simple way of understanding. It gave me a few perspectives of how dating should go and even look like in God’s eyes. I thought this book was pretty neat to read.

Dateable by Justin Lookadoo